It's actually pretty simple. How should I react? How should I respond? What should I do next? How should I treat them? If ever you are in doubt as to how to act toward someone, it's best to treat them as you would a fellow believer. The 50+ "one another's in scripture give us plenty of instruction in how we are to treat one another. The question is, are we bold enough to follow through? When we are slighted, must we be so quick to defend ourselves and our position...or just listen in humility; I can say for me, this is difficult, this is an area that I fail most often. I'm so sure and passionate about my position, I want others to see it the same way I do. If I'm not careful, I come off more as a bully than a grace filled lover of God. God, give me humility and compassion.